The reason why you can't see it, the reason why you can't get it is because you are looking too far. You are not giving attention to what is in front of you. It is very near, the opportunity will almost bite you in your face yet you can't see it. I don't know if you are blind or maybe your standards were just too high, you're so picky that is why in the end you don't have anything in your hands.
You are always complaining that is really really difficult to find a job, you are telling the world that you don't have the means to find a job. But what is the computer in your home doing? instead of wasting your time in facebook and gossiping for people that doesn't matter, why don't you create an account in jobstreet and then go look for a job? was that hard? is that going to kill you if you do it? you don't need to walk anymore, all you got to do is type and make a believable resume and then pass it to different companies, what is difficult about that? The opportunity is in front of your face, I don't know what can't you see it.
You are looking for a girlfriend but you are looking for someone who has a celebrity like characteristics. You are looking for someone who is smooth as silk but you are not handsome and you are even broke. You are acting like you are someone who is blessed with good looks but you're only an average guy who can only write your own name. There is a girl in your neighborhood who is not so much pretty but you can say that she has some looks too, she is kind and charming and some boys were courting her. She is giving you signs that she has an interest in you but you are playing hard to get because your standards were too high even though your life is low. The opportunity to have a girlfriend is there, there is a chick waiting to be explored but you think of yourself as a king even though you have a qualities of a slave. You think that you deserve more so you don't grab the opportunity presented.
You are hungry, there is a food in the refrigerator, yes it is leftover but it can still fill your empty stomach. It can still save you from ulcer. But look at your attitude, you are complaining that the food in the refrigerator is not good anymore and you are already disgusted with its taste. You want your mom to cook for another food for you but there is no more food to cook. You are not rich but you are acting like you are rich, the food is in front of you, all you got to do is bite it and enjoy it yet you can't do it. You're a spoiled brat even though you don't have the right to act like that.
A lot of people were blessed but they can't see what is in front of them, they keep on looking for some other things that is why they can't find anything. What you need is already in front of you, all you have to do is appreciate it and make the best out of it.