Thursday, October 27, 2016

YOU CAN NEVER CHANGE THE WORLD, ALL YOU CAN DO IS INSPIRE


There are lot of people that thinks they are changing the world, they thought that what they are doing is changing some people's attitude and insights about life. They think that a simple motivational speech here and there will make people do the right thing and change their lives.

The reality is no one can change the world, no one can alter someone's decision making in life. All you can do is inspire, you can show them the way but you can't tell them what to do. You can't force them to do this or do that because they were not children anymore. They can make decision by themselves. The more you force them to change the more they will not change. You are just wasting your time and energy, you better stop because there is a tendency that they will be annoyed at you and they will never listen to you anymore, ever.

If you want to change someone's life, you  cannot change him by forcing your ideas and insights in life and forcing him to believe you, it doesn't work out that way. That person will only get mad at you. You can change him by not changing him, instead you should inspire him. Once he likes what you are doing and he thinks that he should do the same thing then that is when change is bound to happen.

Inspiring is a better way because it is not forcing anyone, it is very natural and easy. If you are forcing someone to change then the tendency is that person will not change, he will become irritated and will never listen to you. He will even laugh at your ideas and you will end up looking like a loser. You will think that your efforts has been wasted and you will feel very bad. You might not continue your intention anymore.

Be the best version of you so you can inspire change, that is the best way to contribute to the world. You can become a role model and people who were impressed with your actions will likely do the same thing. You can't inspire someone to change if you can't show them very good results that you did yourself. They will not believe in you if you can't come up with a result that was done through hardwork.

Everyone has his own timing for the change, change cannot happen right away. It takes time and it takes patience. So don't ever think that you are changing the world by simply making a speech or doing a simple kind of act because the people who witnessed your actions will go back to their old life even if they were amazed by your deeds.

Change is done voluntarily, without resistance nor brute force needed. Change is a decision made by the person who really wants to change. He did it without any outside influence that is telling him to change, it is like a calling, he do it anyway, he do it right away without listening to someone because he thinks that it is the right thing to do.

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