Respect is one of the main treatment that people needs. If you feel that other people respects you, you will feel better and you will feel important. It also feels like you are significant in this world if people respects you no matter what your situation in life is. You feel that you are part of a right thinking society and it gives you confidence in some ways.
But sometimes other people were disrespectful, they will not treat your right. And of course you will feel bad and sometimes you want to fight back. You will feel low and you will question yourself if there is something wrong with you. So if you don't want to be disrespected again, you should consider some of these ways and follow them:
1. Stop trying to impress people. You don't need to impress people, I don't know why a lot of people are still doing this. If someone likes you then you don't need to impress him/her. The appreciation from other people will come out naturally, you don't need to do stupid stuffs because others will just get annoyed with you. Others will disrespect you especially if they see unpleasant words coming out from your mouth. They will disrespect you if you are not being yourself, especially if you are doing annoying things just to get some attention.
2. Stop cutting into a conversation without a proper timing. If you will force yourself to join a conversation then people might disrespect you especially if they don't like your timing. They might make fun of you and make you look like a clown by joining forces to humiliate you. It is not their fault to disrespect you, you are entering a conversation without their consent so you will pay the price for it.
3. Stop lending someone. Allowing someone to borrow money from you will make you disrespected if your money was not returned. You will feel like all of the hardwork you did to earn that money turned into nothing. You feel disrespected because the borrower didn't give importance to the hardwork that you did just to earn money. You will even feel more disrespected if you learned that the borrower is just using your money for useless things.
4. Stop being needy. If you always need something, if you always need help, if you can't provide for yourself then people will disrespect you, they will be disgusted at you. They will call you a lot of aliases that are not cool, those aliases were connected from your needy behavior. They will look at you as a weak person and they will treat you not right. They will feel like you are a slave to them because you owe them a lot.
5. Never enter an argument especially if the person you arguing with is classless. You can't win through words if you are arguing with a person who has no breaks in his mouth. He will say whatever he wants to you, he will use disrespectful words against you and you will never win because you're not that kind of person. People with no good manners will always win an argument in public, they don't care if they look classless, all they want is to explode like a bomb, make noise and intimidate you. So it is better to stay away in an argument especially if it is nonsense.
6. Respect people too. If you want respect then you should respect people too, as simple as that. Being respectful means you deserve some respect too and you will get it. It is true that you will get the same treatment that you show to other people so if you want respect then try to be polite, humble and of course respectful. They will respect you because they know that you are that kind of person that needs respect because you are not making other people bad, you are doing the right job as a contributor of a well working society.
7. Express yourself in the right way. If you want to express yourself then do it the right way, do it by really being yourself and doing things for the sake of releasing your emotion and not for attention. If people see that you only want attention that is the reason why you are doing unacceptable things then they will no longer respect you. You can grab their attention by doing stupid stuffs but that attention will turn into disgust in the end.
8. Have a classy behavior. Act like you are well educated, act like you've finish school even if you did not. You can have a classy behavior even if you came from a poor background. Act like your mom thought you very well on how to become respectful. Be kind to others, be respectful to others and people will give you the same respect.
9. Make yourself great. Have you seen a great man that wasn't respected? he maybe disrespected if he is not around but if he is present... people will treat him with any kind of respect. But if you become great, you should learn how to respect people too. Respect should be earned and not to be imposed. Be great at something so people will respect you, they will give you perks, they will give you special treatment. You deserve all of those respect because you work hard a lot and you earn it through sacrifices and pain.
But there are also some instances where you will be disrespected no matter how great you are or how respectful you are. There are really morons in this world that have no manners or whatever. But if you really knew your value then you will just ignore people that are disrespectful, it is just a waste of time dealing with them because they won't believe you even if you explain things in a right way to them. Just live your life and continue being respectful, we are all equal in this world, we should respect all people no matter how big or small they are.
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